Friday, February 15, 2008
Me n My Freedom !
I’m sure almost all of you people who r reading this post (including my beloved sis) are enjoying your freedom to the maximum.. now do I hear some one yelling NO? OH! Wait.. that isn’t any of you.. its me.. I’m the one who is yelling NO.. (geez. My voice is so annoying to me at times..)
Now what do you mean by freedom? Is it only wearing wat you want ? or travelling to places where u always wanted to go OR watching tv all daylong ? wel.. for me freedom basically means Living my life the way I want it!! How many souls out there are living that life ha? No barriers.. no one to tel you what u should do.. what u shld wear or even what you should eat..
I for a girl who never had the freedom to go anywhere without my parents.. (which applied to my sis).. is doing fine with the limited freedom I have.. one strategy I follow is that I normally DO NOT tell my parents where I go and wat I do.. which my friends are NOT healthy at all.. I repeat.. NOT Healthy at all .. bt hey.. I get wat I want ... so it fulfils at least one side of my life.. come to think of the current situ in the country. .these days..i LOVE to stay at home than going out.. hv the cable tv.. so can watch tv all day long.. bt one thing .. is that .. U want your freedom from home.. keep your parents in a GOOD MOOD ! bt wat I can say abt my dad is that.. he is totally ok all the time.. bt no sooner I ask for permission to go out with my friends.. you should see his FACE.. lyk he has been possessed by some devil or something.. Im sure my sis knws wat I mean.. even for her.. there was a time she hated to be at home.. wel… she hated almost everyone.. all at home were limiting her freedom.. (wel EXCEPT me ofcz.. ) I had to teach her how I got wat I want.. bt sadly.. she was not that patient at all to get wat she wants.. finally my teachings were so good that she went to US and got married over there.. hmmm.. come to think of it.. it aint bad at all isn’t it ?
Eventually most of the barriers I had when I was a little girl are now gone.. wel.. its more like I can watch wat I want… can wear wt I want.. can stay up til late in the night if feel lyk it and even .. surf the net til I want.. the latest where I stayed up late was til 2 am in da morning I gues.. I cant rember wt I was doing late so up.. err.. may be chatting to someone .. I think..
The freedom from the boyfriend ? wel.. I hv to admit that I never had any freedom barriers from my lover in wat so ever.. I had a good freedom even then and even now.. Y ? cz he was million miles apart from me.. yeah.. we broke up.. and that is a different story.. bt I m so glad that I was never asked NOT to do things.. wel.. that’s abt the past bf life…. Bt u c.. some guys don’t want their girl frnds to do things.. wear things.. even say things.. I mean COME ON .. where is the love and freedom in that ? ok.. I agree if the girl is doing or wearing or saying something unsuitable u guys MUST stop it.. bt have u ever wondered.. whether all wat you do is right? Or all wat you say is rite ? for guys.. there is no point of saying.. “hey WAT the hell are u wearing” cz.. its alwys.. a Denim and a T for them.. bt I hate guys who wear their trousers to the hip.. yeik ! I mean.. come on guys.. for heavens sake.. why do u want show ur HIPS ? ?? (ok i understand its ur way of showing ur FREEdom ) ha ha ha !
Stil for all.. we are born to this world as free human beings and that is the way we should die too.. bt sadly.. girls hv their limits when it comes to freedom in SL.. as a Daughter.. as a wife.. and finally as a mother.. (freedom under a Male.. father.. husband and the son.. ) Hey..i m not complaining.. cz stil im in da Daughter stage.. I l write abt the losing of freedom to the husband one day, if I get a chance.. (or the husband can write abt loosing HIS freedom to me ! hik hik..)
Come wat may.. it’s a free world out there people.. enjoy your freedom to the maximum but knw your limits always… Cheers !
3 comments:
Hey! I live my life exactly the way I want! I'm the Captain of my aircraft! No one tells me WHAT or WHAT NOT to do....... Ummmmmmmmmmm...... except ofcourse when it comes to my woman but don't tell her I told you so! HEHEHE!
Yeah yeah... I know u buddy.. In the end.. you always got what u want.. which is.. a good thing... We've all grown up now... And yes.. we have all the freedom we need. Isn't it a wonderful thing Konga??
hey sis we all are prisinors of our own restrictions.But the beauty is no one can put restrictions to the freedom of ur mind.Do i have the freedom i seek? gd question..my darling sis even with the limited freedom i had i enjoyed myself..remember all those feild visits, workshops etc..telling da truth always won't get u anywhere..i learned that the hard way :-) ( i don't unerstand y ppl find it diff to hear the truth )..u got to be tricky though i hate to do it..but hey if life treats u unfair sometimes u r forced to go to the extreams...hmmm am glad i came to US..away frm all da headaches and commands..but do i have da freedom i seek? sis i can tell u this much..itz is ur own decisions that limit ur freedom..the choices u make in life..except for being a daughter (which obviously u can't avoid)..yeah sis itz a whole new wrld out there..explore and enjoy..not forgetting what matters most in life..is it total freedom ..or is it total peacefullness or happiness of mind..???
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