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Saturday, February 2, 2008

Will you settle for Less than perfect ?



Oh boy. I don’t kw why I want to write abt this .. but here I am writing abt it.. have you realized that after u get into a relationship you meet that one person whom you feel more than what you feel for you partner ? Yes ? or NO ? wel.. i think the most of you would say YES.. or OH YES!! and if so.. wt hav you done abt it ? NOTHING ? or did u really went out n got wt u want ? Kool !

‘Everybody Cheats’ ths is my theory.. it doesn’t hv to be in major ways.. bt in minor minor ways .. we all do that.. now I will not accept if any of you guys say.. “No I have never cheated.” ok fine.... I agree but cheating cannot be framed to a person starting an affair with another guy or a girl whilst having n affair.. if you lie to your partner.. or if u don’t share the incidents that are more important to u in life n you tell others abt it...... that too is cheating in a way.. itz not lyn cz you never say anything.. bt cheating.. yeah.. I v done that.. Y ? simply because .. I never felt that he would understand .. did I tried to tell him? I tires.. bt I guz not.. when u r in a relationship you kwn wt your partner is lyk…. so its better to keep your mouth SHUT at times.. without creating a situ.. over NOTHING! Im sure u know what I mean… Agreed ?

We all dream about having the perfect marriage or prior to that to hv da perfect partner .. don’t we ? I don’t kw abt you guys.. bt I did…. well.. all my choices never fit da frame I had.. came close.. bt didn’t fit .. the ones who knows wat happened .. kwn wat happened.. the ‘tall hansom hunky’ I never met.. so far.. bt once did met a guy who had a niz heart.. bt suddenly.. he went far away.. I stil wonder how n y did it happen.. may be. .. becz my life must hv realized that its not wat I deserve.. or may be he n I both deserve better or we both don’t deserve each other.. who knws.. n who cares anyways.. those days passed and im still living.. n living the life I always wanted.. (not exactly bt happily) so I guz.. I m jst doing fine.. okay.. I think im deviating from the topic. .dont i..? ok..letz go back to the less than perfect theory..

So do we get into a relationship because we feel that person is the perfect match for us ? I think we all r gambling whn we say yes .. n that gambling may hit the Jackpot or we may jst loose all wat we already had and left with nothing.. im not married yet.. bt the ones who are married now.. hv you guyz settled for less than perfect? Is your hubby is the perfect one ? or is you wify is ?. .. but so far.. I have not met that couple.. who said.. YES he is the perfect match or she is.. ! Come to think of it.. who are we kidding.. ourselves ? we settle for wat we get in life.. instead of searching for the best .. we adjust to wat comes in our way… cz nobody wants to be lonely…I for a fact knowing all this.. sure is going to be satisfied with wat I get from life.. cz.. less than perfect is the perfect.. n on the other hand NOBODY is perfect and so am i.. !!!





1 comments:

Kemali said...

Hey Konga... Yeah.. everybody cheats... and they lie too.. Noboday can say no.. Thru our lives we have at least lied once.. Let's see if anyone will put a comment saying "Hey.. I've never told a lie in my entire life".. He/she just told a lie!! :)