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Sunday, May 31, 2009

Are daughters really a curse ???



First of all I ll say .. “ I DON’T BELIVE IT SO” not jst becz im a daughter.. its becz of wt I knw and see and feel..

Lets see.. females are categorized as the most weakest creatures on earth.. bt are they really weak ? now why are they called that way.. or categorized in that manner..? I v tried to come up with so many reasons..bt it all ends up with .. “ females are not physically strong as males..” related to humans.. women are physically weaker than Men.. not all the time.. bt at least 90%.. so is it why they are been treated like dirt at times? Is it why thy r been used ? tken advantage of ?

Is it why fathers don’t like daughters? What abt mothers ?

Analyze ..

frm da eye of the fathers..

It is said that a boy should be there in the family to keep the hierarchy goin.. ? no son.. no life.. some belived that ..n some stil do… hmm.. now isn’t if funny.. whn kings were ruling the countries.. they hoped n prayed for a boy to be born to their queens ? n how many times they ve regret that they don’t hv a son in da family to be da next crowned prince ? how many times have u heard a Queen ruled the country.. not many I suppose..

A daughter is suppose to be given away with a BIG dowry.. ok its not my theory.. bt its wat ppl mostly da Asians belive.. specially in India.. they in many instances have burned their daughter in laws to death cz of such disputes.. and that is a burden for the parents too .. specially da fathers.. cz thy are the breadwinners .. so they hve to look aftr their family…

Protection.. hmm… a BIG word n a huge responsibility.. isn’t it.. fathers are suppose to protect their children.. and daughters specially in that manner.. they are suppose to bring their daughters up with no baggage.. with no black spots.. ( no not the ones u can vanish with fair n lovely.. hikhik..) … so are the fathers who dsnt like daughters are AFRAID of such responsibilities ???


From da eye of the mothers

Why do they don’t like daughters ? easy .. they don’t want their daughters to go tro such miseries..as I hv mentioned above..
There can be more reasons for why daughers are treated that way.. bt I gus ppl already knw it..

Bt I hve to tel this to you..

I am a daughter.. n i knw wat I m talking abt whn I say daughters are not a curse.. they r the ones who brings joy to you.. they are the ones who makes you a family.. they r the link that bonds you together..

Wat abt that spcial daughter ? ?
She is the one who gave birth to you . without her you r NO one .. you wil never be in this world even to criticize wat I say if it wasn’t for her.. she is life you are breathing.. and She is a daughter to someone.. your existence depended on her.. yea… I m talking abt ur mom.. wil u b here if it aint for her ?

So do you still belive that they are a curse ?? thinks again.. :D

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